Six Strategies for Resolving and Preventing Workplace Conflict

HR & Safety

One employee feels that another is not contributing enough. Another is being vague about deadlines or stalling on a report. Still others don’t feel comfortable owning up to mistakes, or they don’t feel valued by their boss or teammates. That kind of workplace conflict doesn’t make headlines, but many of us encounter it every day.
Over time, workplace conflict can erode even the most successful companies.
Kristin Behfar, an associate professor at the University of Virginia’s Darden School of Business, specializes in teaching MBA students and companies how to manage and prevent day-to-day workplace conflict. She shared six tips for eliminating it—or at least minimizing its impact.

Recognize Representation Gaps

In many cases, Behfar said, workplace conflict arises not because someone is wrong, but because both groups are right. They just have competing interests, creating what researchers at Carnegie Melon have called a “representation gap.”
“For example, sales and manufacturing functions have different interests. Manufacturing wants standardization and volume; sales want customization and low price,” Behfar says. “They are both serving the customer, but in different ways.”
She recently worked with a school system where district representatives wanted to prove students were testing at state-mandated levels, while individual schools wanted to show that student proficiency was improving even if it was not reaching state standards.
“They were defining success a little differently, and consequently two parts of the system that are supposed to be working together were butting heads,” Behfar says. “You have to name and define that conflicting interest or you will just keep dancing around the problem.”

Recognize and Manage Passive Aggression

Behfar characterizes workplace behaviors by directness and intensity. Direct, high-intensity behaviors, such as verbal arguments, are more noticeable, but less common. Indirect, passive-aggressive behaviors—vagueness, avoidance, teasing, or exclusion—are much more common.
Irritating as they are, she suggests not taking those behaviors personally.

Effective teams respond to passive aggression by tactfully refocusing on shared team goals.

“We normally respond to passive-aggressive behavior by assuming that there is something wrong with that person, but there might be something wrong with the situation they are in,” she says.
For example, someone might have too much work or might not trust their boss to back them up.
Effective teams respond to passive aggression by tactfully refocusing on shared team goals. For example, instead of calling out one member who is withholding information, the team leader might remind everyone to share information and reiterate why that information is needed for the team to do well.
“Everyone agrees that they want the team to do well, even if they don’t agree that they—or someone else—are being bad team members,” Behfar says.

Create Psychological Safety

In 2012, Google launched Project Aristotle, studying hundreds of Google teams to determine what factors made some thrive while others faltered.
One common denominator among high-performing teams was what Harvard Business School professor Amy Edmondson terms “psychological safety”—confidence that team members can speak up or even make mistakes and still receive support from the team.
To create psychologically safe teams, Behfar says, managers should put individuals in situations where they can do their best work, be honest and supportive when mistakes happen, and ensure employees feel that they get out what they put in.
Economics research shows that people join groups because they offer an advantage.
“If you put one cooperative individual and one selfish individual together, the selfish individual wins every time,” Behfar says. “But cooperative groups beat selfish individuals every time. Team leaders create psychological safety by making sure that the group is a cooperative group, that it does not splinter.”

Match the Work with the Quirk

Not everyone is going to be the perfect teammate, and understanding how to help difficult team members is key to preserving psychological safety and avoiding workplace conflict.

If you try to address someone’s personality, you are not going to win.

“If you try to address someone’s personality, you are not going to win,” Behfar says.
Instead, she suggests identifying peoples’ strengths and how they can help the team—matching the work with the quirk.
She recalled a case study where one employee had been demoted and was reporting to a manager he did not respect. His bitterness was hurting his project team, and they came to Behfar for advice.
“I asked them what he was good at, and they said he was good at criticism,” she says.
“The team was making a lot of mistakes, so they could use criticism. They decided to excuse him from presentations and other team functions he did not like and instead have him add value by reviewing all of the team’s outgoing metrics. They found a way to play the hand they were dealt.”

Find the Perfect Size

“Many of the teams I work with are too big,” Behfar says. “Marvin Shaw’s research found that once teams exceed eight people, three people do 77% of the talking.”
To make sure teams are an appropriate size, managers should clearly define why each person is on the team and what his or her role is.
“Not everyone is going to have an equal role; some people might be peripheral, but they are still on the team,” she said. “Managers need to clearly define how each person is adding value.”

Use After-Action Reviews

Often, Behfar says, successful teams have a hard time maintaining their success because they do not truly understand what made them successful in the first place. After-action reviews can help managers pinpoint exactly what worked and what did not.
“One of the things I have learned from interacting with the military is to do after-action reviews on everything,” Behfar says. “Look back at the critical turning points and recognize the people who generated ideas. Make sure to give credit where credit is due. If you don’t, you will lose your star performers.”


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